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Post by bolverk on Jul 3, 2008 12:30:11 GMT -5
I can only think of one reason why someone would cheat on Christie Brinkley. Lack-o-nookie. After all, men have needs too.
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Post by The Big Dog on Jul 3, 2008 13:25:01 GMT -5
There is something about "show ponies" isn't there? Four marriages and all. Of course she does have three children with three different fathers so there must've been some "activity" somewhere along the line.
All I know is that at 54 she is still a knockout.
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Post by bolverk on Jul 3, 2008 13:48:10 GMT -5
She certainly is.
However, my point is this. If it is okay for her and her lawyer to bring up the sexual activities of the husband, then his attorney should bring up any lack of affection on her part. Women often do not see the parallel, but the simple fact of nature is that men remain sexually active nearly their entire life, and in a marriage it is her responsibility to make sure he does not seek his satisfaction elsewhere.
If she were my wife, I would be very busy. Provided she has not become a frigid prude, so to speak. After all, what good is it to have such a beautiful woman if you don't get to plow the field.
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Post by Mink on Jul 3, 2008 18:58:51 GMT -5
I missed this on the news. Is there a link? So Christie is getting another divorce? Oh, the life of the stars......who needs it?
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Post by JustMyOpinion on Jul 4, 2008 11:11:45 GMT -5
I can only think of one reason why someone would cheat on Christie Brinkley. Lack-o-nookie. After all, men have needs too. Ah yes, relationships... It's funny, or not so funny, very often women shut down physically to men because their emotional needs aren't being met. Which came first? The chicken, or the egg?
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Post by Mink on Jul 7, 2008 0:00:02 GMT -5
So, is there a link? Maybe it says why the husband cheated on such a successful and beautiful woman. Maybe it wasn't the lack of nookie or maybe she didn't shut down......maybe he was just a philanderer, no good for nothing piece of _ _it!
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Post by bolverk on Jul 7, 2008 12:31:17 GMT -5
Well Mink, we know he is a no good philandering POS, we just don't know why. Maybe it is because he is 38 and she is 53. I am just speculating about her end in the relationship though. We are often prone to rush to judgment and call a man a philanderer, without knowing the cause. Even my maternal grandmother knew it was her responsibility to keep her husbands attention at home, and she gave my mother the same advice.
My Grandfather and my father were both loyal to their wives, as I am to mine. And why is that, because our wives know how to keep our attention at home. Neglect a man's needs, and he will begin to stray, it is that simple. But, you never hear that in all these celebrity divorce stories, though in many I am sure it is the cause. Especially in a case where the woman is the celebrity and the man is a nobody. Like this case.
So, basically, if I am reading about his promiscuity, I want to hear about her lack of attention or that she was very attentive. There is a direct relationship, even if no one wants to admit it. Or is it men who are the only ones who are required to be super human in terms of human behavior?
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Post by JustMyOpinion on Jul 7, 2008 13:36:29 GMT -5
So, Bolverk, in your opinion what does a woman need in order to continue satisfying her man so he doesn't wander? Or, better yet, so she doesn't wander? Anything?
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Post by bolverk on Jul 7, 2008 15:39:46 GMT -5
Mutual respect and some passion, that is all it takes, with the exception of a little love.
Some men will wander regardless, they should be dumped. Others wander because they are not being paid attention to. Men's needs are usually more physical and women's emotional. A man needs to pay attention to his ladies emotional needs, and the woman a man's physical needs.
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Post by Mink on Jul 7, 2008 19:03:22 GMT -5
So, maybe they just lacked the love it takes to stay together through thick and thin, ups/downs. It may have been just a show and had nothing to do with hers/his needs at all.
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Post by The New Guy on Jul 8, 2008 0:00:29 GMT -5
how about this thought: who cares?
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Post by JustMyOpinion on Jul 8, 2008 10:41:37 GMT -5
Bolverk, I like your response. So many people get involved in relationships without realizing that men and women have different needs, and can't figure out why the relationship falls apart. Women like to talk out their problems/feelings only to be validated, or heard, and men tend to want to fix whatever it is that has upset them. Yes, I know I'm generalizing, but sound familiar?
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